what do I want from people...

I have encountered many other souls, hearts and personalities...with that said no one is the same and no one gives you the same things. I know this and I appreciate this in each and every person in my life, the confusion lies in asking myself why people must judge and not appreciate others for the same reasons. I don't understand why people would want the whole world to be the same. We need difference. We need different people, the kind of people who cause trouble as well as the people who fight for justice.

I think we need to accept people for who they are and stop trying to make them fit our mold. Nothing hurts more then when a person feels like they are not accepted for the person they are or who they want to be.

I know this first hand, I am not the same Arnita I was a couple years ago. I have grown, changed, improved myself a lot and there is still work to be done. I hate when people can't let go of the things you have done or the way you "use to" act. There is a reason it happened in the past...now let me grow. I want to say the following to people who think they know me....

1) You don't know me...you don't know my likes, dislikes, the way I am, the way I treat people...

2) I love harder than I ever have before...I let lots of things go, I don't like to fight, and I don't like drama in my life

3) Stop thinking you know how I operate because you don't... I am not the person who doesn't care so stop telling me I am, but please don't try to make me out to be
heartless.

So what do I want from people...I want people to be themselves and to let me be me...
Don't try to change who you are and don't try to change me...